When beginning a search for a job or career, please do the research about the various companies that are GLBT friendly, especially those companies that are listed on the Human Rights Campaign Corporate Equality Index. I would encourage you to use the information here as a tool to aid you in finding the right company for your specific career field.
I have found that companies I worked for may have been GLBT friendly, however, when it came to transgender individuals, there are still numerous exclusions to appropriate health care that may be a part of your medical benefits.
I really enjoyed my career while in the US Air Force, as a contractor to NASA, and to working in the Advanced Weapons Division at Alliant Techsystems, Inc. (ATK). While I did not come out while in the Air Force, I found that coming out to co-workers is very difficult and emotionally stressful. If it is correctly done, it just may help those around you to understand your need to be the real you.
When I was at Jacobs Technology, Inc. (ESCG), I approached my manager in private to discuss with him about my gender issues. While at the time he was okay with it, he advised that I discuss this with the Human Resource Manager and their staff. As it took several weeks to have each of them take the proper steps, I had my counselor come to the office and meet with my supervisor and the individuals in management to discuss the changes that I will be undergoing.
Prior to arriving at work on a Monday as "Charlene" the human resource management, along with my supervisor, had set up a diversity day in training for my office, as well as those customers that I associated with. During the meeting, I was asked to come forward to share with my colleagues about my decision to begin the process of becoming a woman. As I finished sharing with them about my transition and what it meant to me, there was a long period of silence from everyone in the room. As people thought about what this meant, several co-workers told me that they would not have a problem, but needed time to understand my need to be a woman.
When that next Monday morning arrived, I was extremely nervous walking in the door with a dress on and fully made up. I can remember as I walked in the door, I tried to prepare myself as to the stares, looks, and comments that I would probably face. Needless to say, that first day as Charlene was not a very productive day at work. Individuals all over the company came to my office area to get a good look at me. Immediately, several women colleagues went to the human resources to file a complaint as to which bathroom I would use now as a woman. It went downhill after 15 minutes on the job as Charlene.
As the week passed, I was told to ask for a female escort to clear out a women's restroom on the fifth floor of the office... my office was on the first floor. Needless to say many women became very hostile to me when they found out that these arrangements were made.
During my second week, I began to be called into my supervisor's office more and more about the distraction my transition had on other employees that worked there. After a few minutes with him, he made some irreverent comments how I would never get any promotions and his disapproval for coming to work dressed as a woman. After that meeting, I decided that my job was in jeopardy... and that the inevitable was going to happen... I was going to either be fired or forced to quit... I was forced to quit my job.
When I was hired at Pratt & Whitney Rocketdyne and then ATK, it was somewhat easier, however, after a year and six months I was again forced to resign my position due to sexual harassment from co-workers and management.
The one thing I had to learn the hard way was just come to work, do your job to the best of your ability, and go home without too much fanfare... When others found out about my transition, it created a very hostile work environment, which resulted in being fired or forced into a reduction in force.
Currently, I have been unemployed for over a year now... I hope that the next position I obtain will be a very professional work environment for myself and other GLBT employees.
Good luck in your search for work!!! Just be the "real" you in all situations!
I hope that during your search for the right position for you, that you will use the following resources to assist you in a successful job.
Love,
Charlene